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Getting Too Big For My Britches…..

I am definitely getting too big for my britches….

Well not really but here is the thing…when I was a kid whenever I would start to get really excited about something or really happy about something I did, I was always told “Don’t get too big for your britches.” I am not sure what the motivation behind that was, but the lesson I heard was do not feel too good about anything because when you do, watch out, something bad will happen. This happens to be a common feeling, if you have not read the book “The Big Leap” by Gay Hendricks it is well worth your time. It reveals how we quite often sabotage our own great experiences for this very reason.

In any event, today I’m writing about getting too big for my britches because of a tweet. That’s right a tweet, so often we tweet away and never really realize what a difference it can make. But I had a totally different blog planned when I read a tweet by my amazing friend Rebel Brown @RebelBrown who tweeted a blog post by Joan Koerber-Walker @JoanKW asking the question “Can we have it all?” a brilliant blog post by the way which you can read here CorePurpose – Joan Koerber-Walker’s Blog — Can we have it all? and it got me to thinking. By the way, Rebel, Joan and I all agree.

That’s the moment I realized I was too big for my britches and it’s OK, I do have it all, that is MY definition of ALL. That what Joan said is right; that it is possible for each and every one of us to have it all. The only thing that keeps us from it is knowing what ALL is. You see, ALL cannot be defined outside of us; it must be defined inside ourselves. Having it ALL does not necassarily mean a family, a career, a house, two cars etc. as so often referred to in today’s media and society when the question is asked. Having it ALL is unique to each and every one of us.

Having it ALL is a journey NOT a destination. Here are a couple tips to help you on your journey and PLEASE feel free to share any tips you have in the comments below!

• TAKE ACTION – do not worry if it is the right one or wrong one toward your ALL just take the step you see and it will lead you toward the next
• BE WILLING TO ASK QUESTIONS – Don’t just accept what every one else says you should want or what the ideal is. You only get one shot at this life look for what feels right for you not others.
• LISTEN TO YOURSELF – Listen to your inner knower. It knows what is best for you and it may not be what others in your life like or think is best. Remember it is your life do what you know is right for you.
• KNOW THAT IT IS A PROCESS – It does not happen overnight and some of the steps you take may not be pretty. It is a journey not a destination, you are not going to arrive at perfection.
• TRUST – trust yourself

What is important is that you have the COURAGE to decide what having it all means to you. Then have the COURAGE to live it …. Have the COURAGE to get too big for YOUR britches.

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Taking a Chance on Something Better

I have always considered myself a proponent of trying new things and change….until recently that is…

Sometimes you get so comfortable thinking of yourself in a certain way or doing things a certain way you don’t realize it may not be the best thing for you.

Recently someone suggested to me that I try a new brand of product they really liked. They knew I had been loyal to the brand I used for well over 10 years without even thinking about it. I adamantly replied I would not even consider it. I used what was BEST for me and I “knew” that without any doubt. It worked for me, it was well known and I “loved” it. Why even think about trying something else. Have you ever had a product you felt that loyal too? I mean I was almost indignant when they suggested it to me.

They dropped it, but it stuck in my mind. So yesterday, when no one else was around, I decided to try it. No one would know and I did not have to tell anyone. I was so loyal I did not want anyone to know I even tried another product.

But I did – and it was AWESOME! I fell in love with it. It was much better for me than the one I’d been using. The one I had vigorously defended. Will I use the new one forever, I do not know. I do not have to know.

Now I know we all face decisions, choices and changes much bigger than that of a brand choice. But the point here is the same – have you really considered why you are continuing to stick with the choices you are making. Are you making them because they really are the best or because they are just the same ones you have been making and they are comfortable? Is there something else you could be giving an opportunity that could offer you more in life? Really think about it!



Marketing – One Size Does Not Fit All…..Any Marketing is Not Good Marketing

You have probably heard the common phrase “any publicity is good publicity” and that may be true for publicity. But is does not necessarily work for marketing.

Here is an example I saw the other day that reminded me of how much you really have to consider your target market and your product when marketing even if you are marketing on a budget. Because I am a true believer that it does not take a lot of money to do marketing that works.

I was driving down the road when I spotted a car with a magnetic sign. Now this is not necessarily a bad way to market your business if you are say a mobile auto detailing business or a landscaping business. If I was in the market for one of those services I would probably make a note of the number and maybe even call it. But this car with the magnetic sign was for a Pampering Day Spa. Hmmm, it was a rather dirty small white compact car which did not give me any type of pampering image nor did it give me any idea of luxury. Now if it had been a stretch limo I might have gotten another image in my head, you know, me riding in the limo with a little champagne on the way to get pampered in the spa for the day. But a small dirty white compact, not enticing me at all to want to call or even find out where this spa is, as a matter of fact it is making me think it is in some creepy, dirty strip center where I do not want to go. And for all I know it is a really nice day spa that I would love to go to. However, based on this type of marketing it is not represented that way. In reality, their magnetic sign is probably costing them more business than it is attracting for them.

So, while a magnetic sign is inexpensive and most people have vehicles to attach one to, so it makes it an easy marketing opportunity, if they had considered their target market this might not have been the best idea to attract it. Even when you are working with a limited budget there are ways to reach your appropriate target market in a way that will appeal to them.

Was this the wrong choice? I have heard people complain about the Oprah Free KFC Grilled Chicken Coupon Giveaway that caused some of the KFC’s to run out of product. But wait let’s see, KFC is very well known for FRIED chicken, most people go there when they know they are not thinking about nutrition. Now KFC wants to launch a healthy product, that is a pretty big undertaking. But they know their target market and they know they would be an Oprah viewer, so it is a match. Oprah offers the free coupon, people show up, love the grilled chicken and they have a successful campaign. Did it have a glitch, well yes they did run out of chicken but even that just succeeded in getting them additional exposure to people that do not watch Oprah. So all in all, it was all good and pretty much everyone knows KFC has grilled chicken and that it was SO good everyone wanted more and more of it! They could not have accomplished getting that message across with a commercial they made up themselves and paid a lot more for.

So if marketing is not a one size fits all and there are tons and I mean tons of opportunities out there to market and market inexpensively especially with the internet and the tremendous growth of social media how do you know what is right for you?

You MUST look at it from your target markets point of view, not from your budgets point of view, it is all about them and what they think, not what you think. Or even how wonderful you are or your product is.

So what may be some better ideas for the day spa that would not cost any more than the magnetic sign? Their target market is adults with expendable income not a lot of time, possibly some stress, (most likely working), who need to be pampered and can afford the service. They could joint venture with other luxury services in the area (dog walkers, house cleaners, etc) for promotion. They could attend local business events (chamber etc) to promote services or an open house night with champagne and munchies. They could hook up with local online websites and twitterers that post happenings and things to do. They could set up a local blog with helpful information, tips and resources that tie into their services. All of these may take time, however, the costs are low and the return on the investment could be much better than the magnetic sign. So are you really thinking about your target market or are you doing it because it is easy?